Need Help with Relationships?
LIFE IS ALL ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS
Relationships. There is not a single person on this planet that has never had or been in a relationship with someone. They are the foundations of our community and the cornerstones of our personal growth. Without them, we wouldn’t learn, we wouldn’t communicate and we simply couldn’t function – they really are our life.
SINGLE SPEAK & PARTNER PLAY-OFFS
Are you the type of person that always says to yourself or your friends “Why do I always attract ‘that’ type?” or “What’s wrong with me?” or “Why can’t I find someone?”.
Or how about this?
Are you and your partner at constant loggerheads? Do you say things like “Errghhh, he just doesn’t get me!” or “I can’t seem to do anything right. No matter I do, she has to show me I’m wrong”.
Now, you’re probably having a little giggle to yourself because one of these scenarios describes your current situation right? Don’t worry, you’re not alone and we hear your frustration.
LET’S GET BACK TO BASICS, SHALL WE?
So why is it that some people can create effortless relationships in both business and their personal lives whilst others struggle to connect?
The answer is simply COMMUNICATION and more specifically, RAPPORT.
Rapport is the ability to understand another person’s ideas or feelings and communicate back to them with empathy. It’s about finding that common ground, nurturing the connection and ultimately building trust between both parties. Once you have established rapport and trust then the flow of communication becomes effortless and your ability to achieve a desired communication outcome is far greater.
If we were to create the ultimate system of how to establish incredible relationships, it would simply look like this:
RESPECT ANOTHER’S MODEL OF THE WORLD
In addition to communication and rapport, when you come from a space of empathy and respect towards another person’s model of the world (ie. their perspective), you strengthen this relationship even more.
Think about it, if you knew how the other person processed information, what triggers their behaviour, what motivates them or what makes them tick then couldn’t you tailor your communication to them a lot more effectively? ABSOLUTELY! And, wouldn’t that mean less conflict and less energy wasted trying to get someone to fit into your model? ABSOLUTELY!
With this information at hand, your old patterns of creating drama and wasting time will be a thing of past.
Our RELATIONSHIPS NOW program explores these concepts in more depth and offers incredible insights into the secrets of long-lasting and loving relationships so that you can attract and maintain the relationship of your dreams NOW!